The heart beats slower and slower, breathing becomes more still, and what appears to be fragility is actually a kind of release. At that moment, the dog’s brain releases oxytocin, the same hormone that was activated when its tail wagged upon your return home. This chemical surge envelops it in peace and tranquility: it’s a sign that its life was full and dedicated to the love and protection of the one it trusted most.
That’s why experts make this request: if the moment of farewell arrives, stay by their side . Stroke their head, hold their paw, speak in a soft voice. Those words and gestures are all your companion needs to say goodbye peacefully, feeling loved until the very last second.
A thank you in the form of silence
The last glance, the gentle sigh, the serenity that surrounds him: all of that is, in reality, his way of saying “thank you.” Thank you for loving me, for taking care of me, for walking alongside me. And even though his body is gone, the bond remains—in the corners of the house where they played, in the memories that never fade.
Accompanying a dog in his final moments is one of the purest gestures of love we can offer. It’s not just about witnessing the end, but about lovingly returning the security and affection he always gave us. That silent farewell is an act of gratitude and loyalty—and although sadness may settle in, an eternal legacy of love remains, one that will never be extinguished.
Tips for being present in that moment
- Talk to the veterinarian about what will happen and express your doubts and fears.
- Bring something familiar to your dog, such as their favorite blanket or toy, to help them feel more at ease.
- If possible, avoid rushing things: take your time.
- Be present: your gentle words, your hand on their head or their paw can make a big difference.
- Allow yourself to cry. Your emotions are natural. Being there for him is also an act of courage and love.
We may never fully understand what a dog is thinking in its final moments. But we do know that what it does understand is love. If you are called to accompany your faithful companion on that final journey, do so with an open heart. In that final silence, the bonds we created are not broken: they are transformed into memories, into indelible traces of pure love!
